Tuesday, August 26, 2008

Lessons By Lauren: Olympics

I should start by explaining how much I love the Olympics!  Ok, I really love the olympics!!!!  I try to be impartial to winter and summer, but something about the summer olympics just makes me happy.  I love that athletes compete peacefully for their countries, and when they stand on that podium, their flag, their anthem, and that country, if just for a moment, grabs everybody's attention.  Oh, and I am a sucker for a crier!

So, away from my country, and my patriotism higher than ever before, it became essential to watch this year competition.  Marisa and I bought cable just for the games and began to enjoy watching the events.  Day after day, we watched as Europeans sealed their victories and took home their medals.  We began to ask ourselves about the quality of this years crop of olympic talent from home.  Where were all the American Gold-medal athletes that we have sent in years past to dominate the pool or crush the competition around the track?

Only after a call to home did we learn just what an effect our media has on our perceptions.  Ben (Marisa's boyfriend in America) let us know that America was indeed doing well and had taken home many medals!  We began our analyzation...

We realized that our cable company offered only EuroSport and an Italian broadcasting company for games viewing.  It became so clear!  Of course Europeans were bringin' home all the golds!  That was what this audience wanted to see!  

My lesson learned.  We all must be diligent in collecting our information, news, history, and stories, from multiple sources to make sure that we are getting a well rounded perspective on the truth.  So many times since I have been here, I have been given contradictory information to what I have known to be true my whole life.  Whether about historical facts, cultural norms, political practices, or religious beliefs,  it is only in these times of questing what you have always know for certain, that we are forced to seek facts around what we believe to be truth. 

"When we blindly adopt a religion, a political system, a literary dogma, we become automatons.  We cease to grow."  - Anais Nin

Grow!!!

Friday, August 22, 2008

Pickin' Figs

Fig Plantation


Yesterday, Marisa and I were invited by a friend to go to a near-by village to pick figs on a fig plantation.  We had a wonderful time.  The plantation was a half miles walk off the main road.  Ireana's niece and nephew came with us and we all wondered through the garden together.  We had such a great night.  We all ate dinner at this little locale that was on a lake (that had seen better days..the water was a little low) and the wind was so cool.  What a break from the "hair dryer" breeze in Berat.  Our dinner was salad and french fries followed by frog legs and fish.  I tried everything that was served to me, but I have to say the frog legs were a little hard to swallow!  Not one of my favs!
 

Tuesday, August 19, 2008

Kidnapped

How exciting a unplanned kidnapping can be!!!!  Yesterday, after a Roots and Shoots meeting with Marisa and our youth club, we met up with Marisa's friend who was going to Tirana for a haircut.  A friend of hers, who has a private car, was going to be driving her, so we jumped in for a free visit to the capital.  

Our plans, however changed somewhere along the way.  We ended up in Durres, a city along the beach, a city with an awesome shopping center and import grocery store.  Marisa and I were so excited...this was our chance to stock up and Spicy Heinz Mustard, blue cheese and name brand cosmetics!  After wandering up and down the isles, yes isles, we began to make our selections.  I bought yogurt, cheese, and other things that don't make it to Berat.  The center even had a camping store, where is bought a real yoga mat!

We left the shopping paradise and on the way home, stopped for a beach front dinner.  Our driver, Petrit Cobo, the owner of the only real winery in Albania, treated us, and then we were back in car headed for home.  

We left Berat around noon, not sure where the day would take us, and we were returned about 10 pm, with full stomachs and grocery bags, but empty pockets.  So it goes....life as a Volunteer!

Monday, August 18, 2008

I'm not Contagious


Meet my landlords new puppy.  Someone left her on my front porch a few weeks ago, but I just cannot afford to keep her.  Since Wayne ran away, I figured that my landlord Pirro might be interested in keeping her.  He was, so now the puppy has a home.

She's cute alright, but what you can't see from this pic is that she is a total mess.  I spent an afternoon bathing her and combing fleas and ticks out of her hair.  Not a problem, 'cause you can see those little suckers (ha ha, no pun intended).  The problem lies in the unseen...

Since the bath day a fews days ago, I have broken out with a rash all over my arms.  Any guesses to what it might be, or who it may be from?  RINGWORM....and yes, it's from that cute little fur ball above.  So, after a few sleepless nights from the itching, I have been prescribed athletes foot cream for the rash and a hearty dose of benedryl for the itch.  My advise to you...don't mess with the stray dogs!

Thursday, July 31, 2008

Oh Wayne...Ku jeni ju?

Sad Day...Since I published the last post about Wayne, my landlords dog, who bites my heels and heards me around the yard, he is no where to be found.  One day he followed us into town, and now we can't find him.  Come home Wayne!!!

Other things are going well.  The temperatures have climbed back into the high 90's, so days go a little bit slower in that kind of heat, with out the AC.  I made some banana bread yesterday night and it is me mire!  I flourished into a great little baker here.  

Yesterday I spent most of the morning cleaning up my house.  At least once a week I try to make a past through the house with a broom and a mop.  The house gets so dusty, living on the dirt road.  Unfortunately, one of the draw backs to a large house is that it takes a long time to clean up.

Today is just like any other day.  I have been a work for a little while and now I think that Marisa and I will go get something to eat for lunch.  After that, we are going to go for a visit at my supervisor's home.  I am looking forward to meeting his family.

Thursday, July 24, 2008

Sights and Sounds of my Life

Thought it may be neat to take you through a day in my life, and all the sights and sounds that I experience during daily life here in Berat.  Come along for the ride...

My bedroom faces the east, so early in the morning (about 5:30 -6am) I am awaked by the sunlight flooding into my bedroom.  If this natural alarm click were not enough, the roosters outside my window crow to make sure that I know that the day has started.  I am becoming more and more immune to their crys, but occasionally I still hear them squawking about in the garden below.  I rise from bed, usually to a cool house, much different than the warm temperature that I fell asleep in.  I head to the kitchen for some granola cereal (imported from Germany) and a cup of instant coffee (that's as close to American coffee as I can get).  Some mornings I am out of the house more quickly, if I am meeting Marisa (sitemate) for an early hike, and others I set up my make-shift yoga studio on my large front patio and take in the sunrise while I am "connecting my body and mind!" Sounds very serene...and it is!  I have started doing yoga because of encouragement from Marisa.  She really likes it and has quite a collection of MP3 downloaded classes.  Some are hard (toning classes) and others are more easy (stretching and breathing).  Either way I really like them and feel that is a great way to wake up.

Most days I proceed to get ready for work.  In the hot summer months this does not require a lot of prep time.  A mildly warm shower and a splash of blush is about all the effort that I can give as I anticipate the heat the day will soon deliver.  My hair doesn't even get blown, as it will dry in the sun during my 10 minute walk to the office.  On my way down the 3 flights of stairs of my villa, I am greeted by the neighbors and the neighbors dog, who we have affectionally name Wayne (he is a cattle dog, and we figured it appropriate for him to have a country name).  Wayne usually follows me half way down my street, playfully bitting at my ankles the whole way, before returning home.

On my way to the office (a ten minute walk to the center of town) I pass though the Gabby.  This is were the Roma people, a group of Gypsies, are selling used clothes, shoes and homegoods, under open air tents.  They call out to anyone who will listen, announcing their goods for sale.  I am greeted with "Miremengjeses" and as I pass, I hear curious whispers about "Ajo eshte American?"  The road to the office leads me by several of my favorite neighborhood stores.  I collect friendly waves and indifferent stares as I pass, my long red hair drying the breeze.  How different I must look the men who line the street cafes?  Many have never been outside the block where they live.

At the office, a 3 story concrete block standing in tribute to the best communist architecture had to offer, I spend most of my time with the same three people.  Emilijano, is my supervisor, Vali and Asjem, share his office.   I am not really doing work with them, as they are all engineers (a common profession here), but they are entertaining to interact with.  We exchange greets and a mix of shqip and english, then I work on projects quietly or check my email.  Most of my work is focused on the youth group that Marisa and I have started.  I usually only commit a few hours to work here, interrupted with trips to the post office to pick up packages or random visits from people off the streets.  I leave and usually make stop at Marisa's apartment, which is in the center of town.  On the way I may stop in at the supermarket, or a fruit and vegetable stand to pick up the makings of dinner. 

Time at Marisa's is consumed by planning our next youth meeting or SAT prep class.  We may meet for a coffee, or, on slow days, waste our time away suffering the mental torture that a New York Times Saturday Crossword puzzle brings us, or instead drift away into a heat induced afternoon nap.  

The buzz of the cell phone alarm clock wakes us, as we get ready to leave the house for a Roots and Shoots (our youth group) club meeting, or coffee with a friend.  When we return to the house, dinner preparation are fast underway.  Marisa is a better cook, so she is our usual menu planner.  She is a vegetarian, so I am eating meals, pa mish (without meat), or better... the soy or tofu fake meat that she has frozen by the pound-full from here recent trip to germany.  Most of mine dinners, I supplement with either chicken breast or sausage, both of which I can get here at the supermarket.  

Our after dinner plans usually include the Gryo, a community walk down the main street of down.  To gryo is very simple...For girls, you put on your most scandalous outfit and walk up and down the street hoping to be "pick out" as an eligible bride.  When you get the the end you turn around and walk back.  For guys, you sit at the cafes and "shop" for your future wife, or troll street chatting with your other Chuni friends.  It really is quite the spectacle.  The street is lined from curb to curb with people just out for stroll, as vendors sell pop corn and cotton candy.  You can even hear the occasional crash of the bumper cars in the center of town, although most of the time the Albanians simply drive them in a circle around the track.


Marisa and I say our farewells, and set our meeting plans for the next day.  I head home, about a 7 minute walk, down the same street that I walk on to begin my day.  Even though the sun has long since set behind our mountian, the streets are still alive.  Store owners packing up their goods, neighbors sitting on their front stoops, and men watching EuroSport at the local pubs.  I arrive at the house, again greet by Wayne, eager to see if i have brought him any food from town.  Pirro (my landlord) is closing up the gym he runs next to the house, and Taushia (his wife) sits on the patio feeding Ray, her grandson.  Sometimes, from deep inside there house that occupies the first floor of my villa, I can hear the infant cries from the two week old grandbaby and Ray's new little brother.  I say my "goodnights" a head upstairs.  

Night time is a relatively quite time.  Usually the neighbors dog is howling for attention and contrary to popular belief, the roosters are crowing even thought the sun will not rise of several hours.  I lay in bed, reflecting on my day, the differences and similarities of my life here.  I miss my friends and family, but think about the new ones that I am making here.  I thank God for another day, and close my eyes for rest, lucky to be living such a good life!

Wednesday, July 9, 2008

Beach Vacation


A group of us just recently took a vacation to the beach Dhermi.  It was gorgeous!  We camped out, laid out and swam all day long.  It was a great mini-pushime (vacation) as Marisa and I have been pretty busy getting things going with the youth group that we are working with.  On Saturday we spend the night in Tirana for a 4th of July party at the home of the US Ambassador to Albania...who wasn't even in the country at the time.  It was a fun afternoon picnic party with hamburgers and hot dogs, meals that we do not regularly eat on a day to day basis here in Alby. Back in Berat for the week and probably the weekend too, which will actually be a nice time to clean, shop and wash things in the house.